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Explaining big topics to little kids is not easy, but having honest, ongoing discussions about tough issues is a crucial part of raising compassionate kids…especially when it comes to talking about race. Research shows that kids as young as 2 begin to use race to draw conclusions about people’s behaviours and before they are 3 they use race to choose playmates (and even earlier than that, they are more likely to look at faces that match the race of their caregivers!)—in other words, it is not too early to start the conversation now. But, if you are at a loss of words, here are resources you can lean on to spark a conversation, teach your children…and educate yourself.
The Conscious Kid has a variety of resources and reading lists about raising anti-racist kids. While some are free, other ongoing resources are available to Patreon supporters (please consider paying for these valuable tools!)
Books for Littles’ Anti-Racism for Kids 101 walks parents through starting a conversation, with lots of book suggestions to support your discussion.
Monique Melton offers several courses exploring anti-racism. Of particular interest for parents: Her Shine Talk for Kids—a six week program about how to talk to children clearly and consistently about race.
Dr. Mimi Nartey wrote a helpful guide for talking to kids: Race, Class, and Parenting: 7 Strategies for Raising Sensitive, Confident and Loving Kids. In addition, Dr. Nartey offers a special membership that gives parents access to exclusive events, a private Facebook Group, and a forthcoming online magazine on the topic.
Embrace Race has articles, guides, and webinars in their vast resource collection, including:
Raising Race Conscious Children frequently holds interactive workshops/webinars for parents. They also do individual one-hour consultations.
NPR’s Talking Race With Young Children is a good 20-minute primer about the topic.
The Longest Shortest Time's episode, "How to Not (Accidentally) Raise a Racist", taps an expert to answer parents' questions about race.
The American Academy of Paediatrics offers a guide for talking to children about racial bias.
Common Sense Media provides a variety of resources for parents on race, including:
Doing Good Together has compiled a collection of tips, videos, and tools to raise an anti-racist generation.
Sesame Street is running a special townhall episode airing on CNN at 10am EST on Saturday June 6th, but they have a few episodes in their archives that work especially well as conversation starters about racism and diversity:
Build a diverse bookshelf. Books are a wonderful conversation starter, and exposing your child to diverse faces and stories at a young age helps them grow into race-conscious little humans. Some places to start…
Buy diverse toys and dolls. These Black-owned brands are a good place to start looking, and make sure your colouring-book-happy kid has a set of multicultural crayons.
For more ideas about how White parents can educate themselves and their children about racism, these two widely circulated pieces are chock-full of resources:
Disclaimer: The information on our site is NOT medical advice for any specific person or condition. It is only meant as general information. If you have any medical questions and concerns about your child or yourself, please contact your health provider. Breastmilk is the best source of nutrition for babies. It is important that, in preparation for and during breastfeeding, mothers eat a healthy, balanced diet. Combined breast- and bottle-feeding in the first weeks of life may reduce the supply of a mother's breastmilk and reversing the decision not to breastfeed is difficult. If you do decide to use infant formula, you should follow instructions carefully.
